Creating Space So It Doesn’t Go Underground
Step 1 of 4 Interpersonal · Module 2.5 Creating Space So It Doesn’t Go Underground What doesn’t get said in the room gets said everywhere else. Silence in a meeting is not the absence of concern, it is concern finding somewhere else to go. 1 Where the silence actually goes You announce a high-stakes change. You ask the room if anyone has questions. Nobody says anything. That silence can feel like a good sign. It usually is not. The meeting ends. Where does it go from here? The concerns that stayed silent in the room do not disappear, they move. The hallway conversation after the meeting. The message thread that starts the moment people are back at their desks. The version of the discussion that happens everywhere except where you could actually hear it and respond. By the time a concern reaches you secondhand, it has usually gotten less accurate and more negative than it started. The goal is not to eliminate concerns. It is to get them into the room while they can still be dealt with directly. 2 How you ask matters as much as whether you ask Inviting concerns into the room only works if the invitation […]
